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Sassafras Tea

Sassafras root that Bart and I harvested.
Sassafras root that Bart and I harvested.

Our winter store of Sassafras root.
“You can sip it in the morning, sip it in the evening, Even at a quarter to three, cause I like sassafras, you like sassafras, we like sassafras tea.” ~ Stacey Dillsen, Zoey 101
Today’s theme is ‘beverage’. When I thought of beverage, I thought of Sassafras Tea. I love Sassafras Tea. Bart and I have some root stored up for use during the winter. We love to forage and it’s even better when we can go out and forage together. I often thought that perhaps this was the skill I “inherited” from my Native American ancestors. Then this summer I got to spend about 3 weeks in Georgia researching my family who came from there and I found information about how my Confederate Civil War ancestors often survived during the war by using their foraging skills. I found it fascinating. If you’d like to learn a little more history about Sassafras Tea that even includes information from Appalachian people who lived in the general area my ancestors came from in Georgia, you can go to Appalachian History.
Here is some of the information I found during my research time in Georgia.
This is from an account of a Confederate soldier I found in a book at the library in Rome, Georgia. (I think this was taken from the book: Some Recollections of the Civil War, by a private in the 40th GA Regiment, C.S.A.)
“We were in East Tennessee during our first experience in marching and camping, and although no Federals were near, yet we had our pickets out on all the roads, probably more for the purposes of discipline than anything else, although there was a considerable Union element all through that section.
“One day, a comrade asked and obtained leave from the officer in charge, (on condition we would divide), to go foraging. It was summertime and fruit was plentiful, and we soon came to a brick dwelling near a road nearly surrounded by a splendid orchard loaded with fine fruit. To go and ask for some of the fruit was our first impulse, but, then they might be Union folks and refuse. After discussing the matter pro and con, we finally agreed on a compromise; we would slip in at the back of the orchard and fill our haversacks (and stomachs) with fruit and then my comrade was to take the haversacks to a certain place and wait, while I would go round to the front of the house and, if anyone should be at home, I was to politely ask permission to get some fruit, etc. This plan seemed to have several advantages. In the first place, if no one was at home we would be excusable, for we couldn’t help it if the owner wasn’t there; then, if they granted us permission, we would know we hadn’t done anything wrong; and finally if they were Union people and refused to let us have any fruit, why we couldn’t stick it back on the trees and would be justified in considering it “contraband of war,” and take it into the camp. We carried out our plan, and I came to the front door and knocked. In a few moments a nice, benevolent-looking, sweet-faced old lady appeared, and making my best bow, cap in hand, I told her that myself and my comrade nearby were Southern soldiers, that our camp was not very far away, that we found camp fare rather dry and seeing her fine orchard of fruit, craved permission to get some to eat, etc. With a pleasant smile she replied promptly, “Why bless your heart! Go and get all you want.” Somehow my recollection is that I felt rather crestfallen and sheepish as I went back.
“How completely all such compunctions of conscience were obliterated later on! At a later period in the war I was particeps criminis in a watermelon stea – forage incident – that will show how expert we became.”
The story goes on to tell of a watermelon “foraging” outing but even more importantly it talks about how the soldiers obtained salt when there was no salt to be had. The Southern women who were nearby to the camps and taking care of the soldiers and the Southern women who sent/took goods to the soldiers would, when strapped for salt, dig up the dirt under an area where they had previously cured meats. They would boil the dirt down and strain out the salt. I would never have even thought to do this!
It’s comforting to me to know how resourceful my ancestors were and that when I forage and continue my personal foraging education, I’m carrying on a tradition from both my Native American ancestors as well as the traditions and resourcefulness of the Confederate mothers who walked this earth before me. I hope that if I’m ever in a situation where I am in dire need of this type of resourcefulness and tenacity that I have the same grit and determination as these women! I hope I don’t let them down. I love these women for who they were. They didn’t sit down and cry- they pulled themselves up and did what it took to get through. I love that this is my heritage!!
So today- whatever you may be going through- think about what your people before you went through. Had they given up- would you be here? Don’t give up! If you do, you may be giving up not only on yourself but on those generations that will come after you. The choices you make today may be the strength your children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren need for their tomorrows.


Until next time,
Lisa @ Days of Our Lives

Ohana

Ohana means family. Family means nobody gets left behind- or forgotten.” ~ Lilo, Lilo and Stitch
Today’s blog post will be a near-wordless post. Enjoy the photos.

Christmas with my Drake cousins at Mam and Pa's house (Gene and Audrey Drake's).
Christmas with my Drake cousins at Mam and Pa’s house (Gene and Audrey Drake’s).

Drake cousins. Top row left to right: Chris Bennett and Rick Drake. Third row left to right: Cortney Drake, Richard Allen Drake, Brad Rooks, Lisa Drake, and Robert Drake. Second row left to right: Jared Drake, Mark Drake, Gina Drake. Bottom row left to right: Rodney Drake, Angie Drake.

My mom, Kay, and some of her siblings ~ Troy, Jerry, Dennis, David, and Paul.
My mom, Kay, and some of her siblings ~ Troy, Jerry, Dennis, David, and Paul.

Bates siblings.

My children, Derek and Shaina.
My children, Derek and Shaina.

Derek & Shaina- 2008, Pensacola, Florida.

Christmas at Bart's parents' home: Derek and Melissa Williams, Bart & Lisa Williams, Shaina and Timmy Easter with baby Ashton Easter.
Christmas at Bart’s parents’ home: Derek and Melissa Williams, Bart & Lisa Williams, Shaina and Timmy Easter with baby Ashton Easter.

My family. Back row: Derek Williams, Lisa Williams, Bart Williams holding Ashton Easter, Timmy Easter. Front row: Melissa Williams, Shaina Easter.

My grandsons at my previous home. Ashton, Theodore, August, and Foster.
My grandsons at my previous home. Ashton, Theodore, August, and Foster.

My boys. Ashton, Theodore, August holding Foster.

Christmas at my parents' home: Ryan & Melissa Schreiber, Joyce & Bart Williams holding Ashton Easter, Shaina Easter, Bart & Lisa Williams holding August Williams and Theodore Easter.
Christmas at my parents’ home: Ryan & Melissa Schreiber, Joyce & Bart Williams holding Ashton Easter, Shaina Easter, Bart & Lisa Williams holding August Williams and Theodore Easter.

My family. Top row: Ryan Schreiber, Melissa Schreiber, Ashton Easter, Joyce Williams, Bart Williams Sr., Shaina Easter. Bottom row: Bart Williams Jr. holding August Williams, Lisa Williams holding Theodore Easter.

Family reunion.
Family reunion.

Reunion. Back row: Sheila Larkin, Michael Kornblum, Gladys Larkin, ?, Bart Williams, Susan Drake, Mechelle Wise, Richard Drake, Rick Drake, Pamela Bennett, Chris Bennett, J. R. Bennett, Connie Drake, Max Drake, Kay Drake, ?. Bottom row: Ray Larkin, ?, Lisa Williams, ?, Juni Larkin, Barbara Larkin, Carl Larkin, Christin Bennett, Roy Drake holding ?, ? (Denise Larkin?).


Until next time,
Lisa @ Days of Our Lives

Antiques

Today’s theme is ‘antique’. That’s like saying “go search for Sam Williams”. WHICH ONE??? I go from “almost impossible” (‘sky’ theme) to “the world is available” (‘antique’ theme). Feast or famine, I guess. Today’s antique is something my grandma (Audrey DRAKE- ‘Mam’) made. I believe this one was made in the late 1980’s but I can’t be sure. I also have some individual blocks that I framed. They were supposed to be coasters but I wanted to keep them from getting stained so I framed them.

Crochet runner made by my grandma, Audrey (Larkin) Drake.
Crochet runner made by my grandma, Audrey (Larkin) Drake.

Crochet runner made by Audrey DRAKE.

Audrey (Larkin) Drake. We called her Mam.
Audrey (Larkin) Drake. We called her Mam.

Mam- Audrey DRAKE
Over the years I’ve acquired a variety of homemade items. Mam often made things for Christmas, weddings, etc. I have several pieces she’s done. Somewhere packed away I also have a doll that Bess LARKIN crocheted for me. I have several quilts that hold special meaning. Some were made by Jessie BATES (‘Granny’) for me, some were made with individual blocks she made but never put into a quilt or with extra fabric she had on hand when she died. I have quilts Kay DRAKE (‘Mom’) made, quilts that Joyce WILLIAMS (my mother-in-law) made, and quilts I’ve made and not given away. I have paintings that Becky DRAKE has done and given me, things my kids and Melissa SCHREIBER (my daughter-in-law) have made for me, things my nieces and nephew and Jared DRAKE (my brother) have made, etc. I love these items dearly. Each of these items is very special to me. Each time the items are used or viewed I remember the person who made them and what that person means to me.

Framed quilt block quilted by my Granny, Jessie (Riter) Bates; framed and gifted to me by my brother and his wife, Jared and Becky Drake.
Framed quilt block quilted by my Granny, Jessie (Riter) Bates; framed and gifted to me by my brother and his wife, Jared and Becky Drake.

Framed quilt block. Block was made by Granny.

Jessie (Riter) Bates.
Jessie (Riter) Bates.

Jessie BATES- Granny
Some of my favorite Christmases were the ‘handmade Christmases’ we had at my Mom and Dad’s house. Everyone should give that a try at least once. I need to start labeling my treasured items soon so if I should die at least people will know what each item is and why it’s special. This is a task Becky and I have talked about doing for a while now. We need to get moving on it! I encourage each of you to post a photo of one homemade item you treasure and why it’s special to you. You may be the only one on earth who knows the significance of a particular piece. Mark your items this week whether you do it by video, by photograph, in writing- however you choose to do it. Make plans for who will get the item when you pass and make your wishes known. If you don’t make plans for your special items they may end up in the trash when you die if for no other reason than no one else recognizes what those items are. Enjoy your week and get busy with your ‘assigned task’.


Until next time,
Lisa @ Days of Our Lives

Luchadors, Lawmen, and the Lost

Today’s theme is ‘sky’. Think about that for a minute…because I’ve thought about it for 2 days! This is a tough one. It required some creativity. I’m going to present several stories, not a lot of proof, possibly some photos, and a little bit of “this is what I’ve been told”. I think you will enjoy it though.
IT’S JUST A BUNCH OF BAD ACTING! – Eugene DRAKE and Bessie WILLIAMS LARKIN
Eugene (“Gene”) and Audrey DRAKE were my grandparents and Bess was my great-grandmother. In the latter years of her life, Bessie lived with Gene and Audrey. Bess loved luchador-style wrestling- masks, theatrics, stage names- the whole nine yards. She loved it. And Gene? He loved antagonizing his mother-in-law! (It’s the DRAKE sense of humor- we kind of can’t help it!) Gene would let Bess turn on wrestling and then he’d start in on her about how it was all fake. She would retort that it was real and the fight was on. I don’t know how Gene really felt about the wrestling but I know he loved picking on Bess. The more he’d antagonize her the more riled up she’d get. My mom remembers times that she would be sitting on the couch next to Gene and he’d nudge mom with his elbow and very softly say, “Watch this.” Then he would start rooting for the wrestler that was opposing the one Bess was rooting for and he’d start smack-talking Bess’s wrestler. Mom said it would really get her going and Gene would be on the couch laughing the whole time.

My grandma Audrey (Larkin) Drake, her brother Ray Larkin, and her mom Bess (Williams) Larkin.
My grandma Audrey (Larkin) Drake, her brother Ray Larkin, and her mom Bess (Williams) Larkin.

Photo of a photo of Bess LARKIN, Audrey DRAKE, and I think the guy is Ray LARKIN.

Portrait of Eugene and Audrey (Larkin) Drake.
Portrait of Eugene and Audrey (Larkin) Drake.

Gene and Audrey DRAKE.

Blue Sky luchador mask.
Blue Sky luchador mask.

Blue Sky luchador mask
REACH FOR THE SKY, PILGRIM! – William DRAKE and John Beason DRAKE
Remember Willard Drake who went to Leavenworth? William was his dad and my 3rd great-grandfather. William is said to have been a law enforcement officer at Oak Grove, Oklahoma. (Information supplied by Kerry Langstaff.) I haven’t been able to verify that. I do know that I’m not aware of William living near Oak Grove, Oklahoma but he did live close to Oak Grove, Missouri in 1870. I’m still trying to find some kind of proof for his work as a Constable or Deputy. John Beason DRAKE was William DRAKE’s grandson (son of Poppy Lon- my 2nd great-grandfather). John was an officer in Southwest City, Missouri.

Thin Blue Line flag.
Thin Blue Line flag.


DISAPPEARED INTO THIN AIR! – Bessie WILLIAMS LARKIN’s Family is Gone Like Yesterday!
My final short short story is about Bess’s family. I’m hoping that someone will find some information about them. Bess’s family has been so hard to trace. Her maiden name is WILLIAMS. Add that to the fact that she was married multiple times and then add to that commonplace first names and you’ve got a recipe for going nowhere fast! Over the past three decades I’ve been able to identify Bess’s dad and paternal grandfather but it’s been tough going and it’s only been recently that I’ve been able to find information about them beyond names. The WILLIAMS’ are still very much a mystery to me.
Bess’s mom’s last name is BELL. It’s still a fairly common name and the problem with a last name like BELL is that it was also a common first and middle name as well as a noun (as in “ring the bell”). All of those things add up to another very difficult family to research. I have identified Bess’s mom, maternal grandparents, and one set of maternal great-grandparents but have not been able to identify anyone in her line beyond that.
So just in case y’all feel like doing a little research, Bess’s parents are Samuel Morris WILLIAMS born April, 1864 in Illinois. Up until this year I believed he had died in 1905. That’s what Mam (Audrey) told me and that was the accepted family history among older family members. However, this year I discovered information indicating he did not, in fact, die but rather ran off and left his wife and kids. Samuel’s dad was John WILLIAMS (1840-1904). Bess’s mom was Eliza Emoline BELL (born July, 1871 in Roubidoux, Texas, Missouri and died in 25 February 1934 in Upton, Texas, Missouri). Eliza’s parents were Quincy Adam BELL (1825-1902) and Emily MOODY BELL (born in Missouri) OR Elizabeth Emoline STEPHENSON (1844-1897) (I’m not sure which one or they might even be the same person). Quincy’s parents were John BELL (1795-1848) and Sarah HARDIN (1806-1896). I would love for you all to join in the search.
One additional thing. I’d love for you all to consider taking a DNA test to contribute to advancing the family genealogy. If you’re interested but have questions, message me and I’ll be glad to help if I can. I just ordered my test a few days ago and I’m looking forward to getting my results.


Until next time,
Lisa @ Days of Our Lives

Quotes from a Wise Granny

In my Granny’s later years she had age-related dementia. I would sometimes go over and sit with her a few hours or take care of her overnight when needed. During those times that I stayed with her she often doled out advice. September 21, 2010 was one of those times she gave me some advice. I was caring for her at her house. She thought I was a Meals-on-Wheels person and that we were at her work. (I’m not sure why since we weren’t doing anything that could be considered work but such is the nature of dementia.) On that day she told me,
“If you listen and keep your mouth shut, you learn things- and nobody can say anything bad about you if you keep your mouth shut!”
She was 97 years old at that time.

My Granny Bates sitting on her porch swing.
My Granny Bates sitting on her porch swing.

Granny on the day she made the quote above. In this photo we were sitting on her front porch enjoying the weather and sunshine and talking.
She was a smart woman. One thing I’ve told my daughter often is to keep her mouth shut at work especially until she knows everyone. The people who are quickest to screw you over are the same ones who are quickest to be your friend at work. I hate that this is true. Wouldn’t life be so much nicer and easier if we could just be friends, support and encourage one another, and depend on each other? This week, love your neighbor like you love yourself. Be nice, do nice, speak nice. (Grammar police- just keep going. I already know that wasn’t grammatically correct. lol) I’m going to try especially hard this week to do the same.


Until next time,
Lisa @ Days of Our Lives

You Got a Document for That?

Today’s theme is ‘document’ and we’ll be looking at documentation for my Nation American heritage.
My 3rd great-grandfather was Jefferson LATTY. (For my family, the line goes from Granny BATES to her mom Laura BULLOCK to Laura’s mom Druziller Mahala LATTY to Druziller’s dad Jefferson LATTY. Researchers believe that Jefferson’s wife, Irena WALLS, was also Native American- 1/8 Cherokee and 1/8 Catawba- but I have not seen any kind of proof for that.
Jefferson was Cherokee and was censused with his family on the Drennen Roll. The Drennen Roll was called the “Trail of Tears” census. Some believe this census was a list of those who walked the Trail of Tears but no evidence has been found to prove this is true. It was the first census of the Native Americans after the Trail of Tears happened. Jefferson was living in Saline District, Indian Territory at the time of the census and was living with A-ke, and Na-ne LATTY. If all my records were not packed away I think I could tell you who A-ke was. I believe Na-ne was his mom but couldn’t be certain until I get my hands on those records I have packed away. They were living near the TINER (also spelled TYNER) family who intermarried with LATTY’s and were also living near Allen, David, Diver, and Peggy LATTY. I know Peggy and Allen were siblings of Jefferson’s. I cannot remember the connection with David and Diver. (I really need to unpack all that genealogy so I can share it with you!)

Saline District, Indian Territory post-Trail of Tears census, Jefferson Latty entry.
Saline District, Indian Territory post-Trail of Tears census, Jefferson Latty entry.

Jefferson is toward the bottom in the left hand column.
Jefferson gave testimony in front of the Commission regarding his Native American heritage but he was not given a roll number. I can’t remember if the reason was that his sister had previously given testimony to the Commission that he was dead and somehow that was used against him or if it was because he did not still live in Indian Territory when roll numbers were issued. When I can find his testimony I will definitely update you on that.
Jefferson lived in the Saline District. You can see the old Saline District Courthouse for yourself. It’s in the country near Rose, Oklahoma. They have been restoring it for some time now with the hopes of opening it to the public. It’s a beautiful and peaceful place. You can also read about the Saline Courthouse Massacre here.

Saline Courthouse, Rose, Oklahoma.
Saline Courthouse, Rose, Oklahoma.

You can see more photos of the courthouse and get directions to find it here.
A few more facts about Jefferson
Jefferson was born in Tennessee around 1832. He married Irena WALLS in 1856 and they had five known children. He fought for the Confederates in the Civil War.

Jefferson Latty's service record. Confederate Co. H, 8th Missouri Infantry.
Jefferson Latty’s service record. Confederate Co. H, 8th Missouri Infantry.

Fold3 image of service record.
He died in 1892 and is said to be buried in Jane Cemetery in Jane, McDonald County, Missouri but I have not found his grave or definitive proof he is buried there.
I hope you’ve enjoyed learning about Jefferson. He’s someone I’d really love to know more about. Sure would be nice if we could somehow prove our Cherokee heritage (and/or our Catawba/Cherokee heritage through his wife.) Maybe one day we’ll get there. If you want to help advance our family history please consider taking a DNA test. I recommend Family Tree DNA since they only require a cheek swab (much better for people with certain illnesses/conditions and older people since we don’t produce enough spit to fill a tube) and they don’t sell you DNA to big pharma and research companies. The tests are on sale right now and will likely go on sale again around Christmas. If you are interested, please let me know. I’d be glad to help you get started on that path to helping advance our family’s genealogy.


Until then,
Lisa @ Days of Our Lives

Occupation: Cabinetmaker

Nicholas REITER was a cabinetmaker toward the end of his life (late 1890’s – early 1900’s). I’m not sure if he did this when he was young or if it was a skill he acquired later in life. Nicholas is the immigrant ancestor for this family line. He is Granny BATES’ grandfather. You can read more about him in my blog by searching my tags (left side of page) for his name.
Below you will find a link to a cabinetmaker’s handbook that was published in 1891- close to the time Nicholas was a cabinetmaker- as well as images of tools that Nicholas might have used in his profession as a cabinet maker.
Go here The Art and Craft of Cabinet-making, a practical handbook to the construction of cabinet furniture, use of tools, formation of joints, hints on designing and setting out work, veneering, etc. together with a review of the development of furniture, by David Denning.

Carpenter's tool cabinet ca 1900.
Carpenter’s tool cabinet ca 1900.

Carpenter’s tool cabinet circa 1900.

Carpenter's tool chest dated mid to late 1800's.Carpenter's tool chest dated mid to late 1800's.
Carpenter’s tool chest dated mid to late 1800’s.

Carpenter’s tool chest dated mid to late 1800’s.


Until next time,
Lisa @ Days of Our Lives

Green

It’s been a long, hard day so I’m going to make this one fairly short. The theme today is ‘green’.
I thought of talking about green living as in ‘foraging’ and I thought of a couple other aspects of green today that I can no longer remember (don’t judge- it’s been a rough day!).
In the end, what I want to talk about is Army green. It’s Veteran’s Day. I want to thank my Dad for his service during Vietnam and to thank my mom for sticking with him during this time. Lots of women didn’t do that for their men.

My dad, Roy Drake, in his Army uniform.
My dad, Roy Drake, in his Army uniform.

My dad in uniform.
While I’m saying thanks, I’d like to include my father-in-law for his service in the Air Force.

Bart's dad, Bart Williams, in his Air Force Uniform.
Bart’s dad, Bart Williams, in his Air Force Uniform.

My father-in-law in uniform.
Thank you both! Freedom is a beautiful thing. Bart and I love all four of you.


Until tomorrow,
Lisa @ Days of Our Lives

Time for Remembering

Today’s theme is ‘time’. Where did my mind go when I saw this topic? “I’ve got a million things to do and not enough time!!” I’m sure you can relate to that feeling. I thought of time as in years/decades/eons/generations. Then I thought of time as in clocks/watches and knew that that was today’s winner.
ALARM CLOCKS AND WRISTWATCHES
I thought of Granny BATES’ alarm clock she had sitting on her headboard for as long as I can remember. That thing was so LOUD!! If you ever slept with Granny when you spent the night with her you know what I mean. And goodness! You couldn’t twitch without her knowing about it! Sneaking out of bed? Nearly impossible if you were sleeping with Granny. She knew your every move. I’m still not sure how she did that.

My granny, Jessie Bates, and my mom, Kay Drake at Granny's house near Southwest City, Missouri.
My granny, Jessie Bates, and my mom, Kay Drake at Granny’s house near Southwest City, Missouri.

Granny and mom.
Granny was always wearing a wristwatch too. I thought she had given me a wristwatch once but if she did it’s packed away probably with my genealogy stuff and photos.

Me, my Granny Jessie Bates, my mom Kay Drake, my daughter Shaina Easter, and my grandson Ashton Easter at Granny's house near Southwest City, Missouri.
Me, my Granny Jessie Bates, my mom Kay Drake, my daughter Shaina Easter, and my grandson Ashton Easter at Granny’s house near Southwest City, Missouri.

This 5-generation photo is a concept of ‘time’ in itself.

WILLIAM RITER’S POCKET WATCH CHAIN

Then I thought of this:

The pocket watch chain that belonged to my great grandfather, William Riter.
The pocket watch chain that belonged to my great grandfather, William Riter.

A photo of the chain that went with William RITER’s pocket watch. I don’t know what ever happened to the actual watch. William is my great-grandfather. He was Granny’s dad.

My great-grandfather, William Riter.
My great-grandfather, William Riter.

William Riter- Jessie BATES’ dad.
FINAL THOUGHTS ON TIME
There are moments in time that matter more to us than other times. Here are some of my moments.

A clock my mom made for me for our homemade Christmas one year.
A clock my mom made for me for our homemade Christmas one year.

This is a clock my mom made me for “homemade Christmas” a couple of years ago. She used photos of my family on the clock face.

Moments of my life.
Moments of my life.

Moments in my life. The middle clock indicates the time of my birth. The clock on the left shows the time of my marriage. The clock on the left shows the time of my wedding. The top clock shows the time of my son’s birth. The clock on the right shows the time of my daughter’s birth. The clock on the bottom shows the approximate time that I learned of my son’s death.
These moments were life-giving and life-changing- each and every moment. I’d love to hear about your life-changing moments.


Until next time,
Lisa @ Days of Our Lives

Lavina Pilgrim Drake- One of My Brick Walls

The theme today is ‘brick wall’ meaning an ancestor that has you stumped. My ancestor is Lavina PILGRIM DRAKE. Her maiden name has been spelled many ways including Pilgrum, Pilgram, Pilgrim, Pehlgram, etc.
Lavina was born about 1821 or 1822 in Indiana. She married Ervin DRAKE (Poppy Lon’s grandfather) on 1 October 1839 in Dubois County, Indiana. Despite the fact that this was the very date that marriage records began in this county, Ervin’s and Lavina’s marriage record is not listed. Ervin and Lavina had 9 known children together. Lavina died in McDonald County, Missouri on 1 September 1875. Her death date was given by Ervin’s second wife (Elizabeth MITCHELL) when she applied for Ervin’s military pension. I have been unable to locate Lavina’s grave.
There were 3 Pilgrim’s in the same area at the same time as Lavina. One was a John PILGRIM. It is possible he is her brother. There are two other Pilgrim’s that appear in records in this area and timeframe- Mikel PILGRIM and Amala (maybe Amelia?) PILGRIM. I cannot connect any of the Pilgrim’s to each other.
This is a very hard surname to research since it is also a common word (as in, ‘Thanksgiving pilgrims’). There are not many families in the USA with this surname and I believe it is probably going to end up being a German surname.
Two things I do have:

Mary Drake, daughter of Ervin and Lavina (Pilgrim) Drake.
Mary Drake, daughter of Ervin and Lavina (Pilgrim) Drake.

A photo of Ervin and Lavina’s daughter, Mary.

Death Certificate for Jefferson Drake.
Death Certificate for Jefferson Drake.

Ervin and Lavina’s son Jefferson’s death certificate verifying Lavina’s surname as Pilgrim.
In researching I did come across Pilgrim’s brand poultry:

Pilgrim's Logo.
Pilgrim’s Logo.

Pilgrim’s logo on website.

Pilgrim's products/logo/ad.
Pilgrim’s products/logo/ad.

Pilgrim’s chicken product.
This is seriously all I have right now. I would love to have some help with this one. I wish I had more to offer, but I don’t. HELP! 🙂


Until next time,
Lisa @ Days of Our Lives

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